A Beginner’s Guide to Music Lessons: Self-Taught vs. Learning with a Teacher
- Kayla Collingwood
- Mar 27
- 6 min read

Starting music lessons is an exciting journey, whether you're picking up an instrument for the first time, developing your voice, diving into music theory or history, exploring composition, or simply enjoying music as a creative outlet.
Many adults have some experience with childhood music lessons, but when returning to music - or starting fresh - one of the biggest questions is: should you learn on your own or with a teacher, especially if you’re not aiming for a professional career? Both approaches have their advantages and challenges, and the best choice depends on your goals, learning style, and available resources. Regardless of your path, a well-rounded approach is key: students working with a teacher benefit from independent study between lessons, while self-taught learners should seek guidance from reliable, experienced educators to build a strong foundation.
Learning Music on Your Own (The Self-Taught Approach)

If you prefer flexibility or are exploring music as a hobby, the self-taught approach can be an excellent way to learn at your own pace. With so many digital resources available, it’s easier than ever to build musical skills independently. However, there are some challenges to be aware of, too, especially if you are considering going professional someday.
Benefits of Being Self-Taught
Flexibility – You control your learning schedule, making it ideal for busy lifestyles.
Affordability – You can find free resources or appropriate products and subscriptions for your needs, making this a cost-effective option.
Personal exploration – Focus on what interests you most, whether it’s classical music, pop, jazz, or composition - or all of the above!
Develops independence – Self-learning encourages problem-solving and self-discipline.
Challenges of Being Self-Taught
Lack of guidance – Without an experienced teacher, it’s easy to develop habits that may be difficult to correct later, and it can also be difficult to find solutions to challenges you encounter.
Limited feedback – Getting feedback from an experienced mentor is valuable and can save you a lot of time and stress in the long run.
Motivation – Without structured lessons, staying committed requires strong self-discipline.
Slower progress – It may take longer to master technique without expert input.
Fewer opportunities – In some areas and genres, especially classical music, self-taught musicians might find certain doors harder to open without formal credentials.
Tips for Self-Taught Musicians
Use structured resources – Instead of relying solely on random YouTube videos, follow structured courses or guides created by experienced educators. Through Sound Garden and my work as "Kayla Collingwood" (a classical singer and music educator), I offer digital workbooks, activity guides, and music resources for learners at all levels and at all ages, with more in development - reach out if there is a specific resource you would like to see!
Record yourself regularly – This helps track progress, identify areas for improvement, and develop critical listening skills.
Engage with a community – Join online forums, Facebook groups, or local meetups to connect with others and get feedback. Platforms like Reddit and Discord can also be useful ways to connect and share.
Set clear goals – Whether it’s learning a specific piece, improving sight-reading, or writing your own composition, having defined goals keeps you motivated and focused. Building towards projects such as recording a single or presenting a concert can also help, and can offer you the opportunity to monetise!
Supplement with professional input – Even if you’re primarily learning on your own, occasional check-ins with a teacher (online or in-person) can provide valuable guidance and prevent bad habits from forming.
The self-taught approach offers incredible freedom, but structure and support are still essential for growth. In the next section, we’ll explore the benefits of working with a teacher and how combining both methods can lead to the best results.
Learning Music with a Teacher

Working with a teacher can be a game-changer for your musical journey. A good teacher provides structure, feedback, and motivation that can help you progress more efficiently than learning on your own. They can also highlight opportunities which may be appropriate for you, such as competitions, auditions, and concerts.
Benefits of Learning with a Teacher
Structured learning – A good teacher provides a clear, step-by-step path to help you build skills in a logical and effective way.
Personalised feedback – Real-time corrections ensure you don’t develop bad habits and can fine-tune technique as you go.
Accountability and motivation – Regular lessons keep you on track and encourage consistent practice.
Stronger technique – A trained instructor ensures you develop healthy, sustainable habits from the start, reducing the risk of injury or strain.
Deeper musical understanding – Teachers can introduce essential elements beyond playing or singing, such as music theory, history, and expressive techniques, tailored to your level and interests.
Challenges of Learning with a Teacher
Cost – Private lessons can be expensive, though group lessons, online courses, or flexible scheduling options can make them more affordable.
Scheduling constraints – Regular lessons require commitment, but many teachers (myself included) offer flexible options to suit different lifestyles.
Less freedom – A structured approach might feel restrictive if you prefer a more exploratory learning style. However, a good teacher will balance structure with creativity.
The wrong teacher - Unfortunately, not all teachers are skilled or have your best interests at heart. On the other hand, they may be wonderful, but you simply don't connect well. Listen to your intuition as you work with a teacher, and don't be afraid to end your working relationship if it seems necessary!
Finding the Right Teacher
It’s important to find a teacher who suits your learning style and goals. Here are some things to consider:
Experience and specialisation – Look for someone knowledgeable in your chosen instrument or vocal style. If you're interested in a specific genre, such as classical, jazz, or folk, find a teacher who understands that style.
Teaching approach – Some teachers follow a strict curriculum, while others adapt to individual students. Consider what works best for you.
Trial lessons – Many teachers offer a free or discounted first lesson to see if their teaching style aligns with your needs.
Online vs. in-person lessons – If finding a local teacher is challenging, online lessons can be an excellent alternative, offering flexibility and access to teachers worldwide.

If you’re looking for lessons tailored to your unique needs, I offer private voice lessons, voice & stagecraft for well-being, and classical music immersion (guided listening and study including music history, theory, etc. according to your interests!) all designed to support students in discovering their voice, building confidence, and developing strong musical and theatrical skills. You can explore my teaching options here.
Working with a teacher can accelerate your progress and help you enjoy music in a more structured way. But ultimately, the best approach is one that aligns with your learning style and goals. In the next section, we’ll explore how combining self-taught methods with guided instruction can offer the best of both worlds!
Which Approach Is Right for You?
The best learning approach depends on your goals, learning style, and personal circumstances. If you’re exploring music for fun and want a relaxed, self-paced experience, teaching yourself can be a great way to start. However, if you want to develop strong technique, avoid bad habits, and progress efficiently, working with a teacher can provide valuable structure and support.
Many musicians find that a hybrid approach - combining self-teaching with professional guidance - offers the best of both worlds. You might take lessons with a teacher while using independent resources like workbooks, interactive exercises, or online courses to deepen your learning between sessions.
I offer a variety of resources to support both self-taught learners and students working with a teacher. From digital workbooks and templates to blog posts and curated learning materials, you’ll find everything you need to build your musical skills. Explore the site to find helpful tools, and check back regularly for new content! I also love to hear from you about what I can create to help you on your journey!
Final Thoughts
No matter which path you choose, the key to success is consistency and enjoyment. Music is a lifelong journey, and progress happens one step at a time. You will face challenges, but overcoming those and achieving things you once never thought possible makes it all worth it!
Are You Starting Your Musical Journey?
I’d love to hear from you! Are you self-taught, taking lessons, or using a mix of both? Share your experiences or explore more resources right here on Sound Garden!
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